my daily reflections…

when someone comes at me, and im feelin like im bein attacked, the hair on the back of my neck stands up, as i bristle up, i get ready for fight or flight. criticism comin at me from anywhere always gets my attention. shouldnt this stand to reason maybe, when i go at someone, criticizin em for their action, they would react in the same manner? why not!? when im makin an amends it is to my benefit to use the prudence, courage, tact, and wisdom ive learned from my experience, with a calm, frank, and open posture, makin my point without argument. with a perspective of thoughtful language, i get to convey where i had been wrong and can ask what they would like me to do to put right any wrongs they may sense i have committed against em. no matter how i may feel theyve done, its not about that, its about the way i have acted or reacted to the happenin or incident. this is where freedom comes to me and i get to move forward with assurance of what i need to do to fix my problems. 1 day @ a time...