The Victim Personality Does this sound like anyone you know? Individuals who habitually indulge in self-victimisation (also known as playing the victim) do so for various reasons: to control or influence other people’s thoughts, feelings and actions; to justify their abuse of others; to seek attention; or, as a way of coping with situations. Although...
havin turned my back on God in my late teens, the only time i ever prayed for assistance from Him was when i was in need or in trouble. even with promises made to my santa god, i would never do as i promised if or when He granted me my wishes. and i didnt...
these last three steps help me to enhance the spiritual experience i get to live havin had a spiritual awakenin as a result of them. step 11s spiritual concept of the continued growth of my spiritual awakenin helps me to sure up the foundation i have built with my HP, with others, and with myself....
i would not be where i am today without the painstakin work of personal inventory. how could i fix me if i didnt know what was wrong with me. the deep digs into character allowed me to see my defects and shortcomins, as well as my assets. becomin aware of who and what had become...
my daily reflections… hope provides me with spiritual enlightenment. faith allows me to use the hope spiritual enlightenment brings to see and feel spiritual awareness. when the works i do become tangible i get to experience the enlightenment that awareness brings. this willingness provides me the spiritual experience livin and practicin the 12 steps promise...
it is through prayer and meditation that i get to improve my conscious contact with my HP, continuin to build the relationship that i began buildin with step 2s spiritual principle of hope. it is with prayer that i get to ask for the knowledge of His will and the power to carry it forward...
This is quite difficult to admit to because it means I need to make a change. I promised to myself when I was about 14 yrs old that I would NEVER be like my father. I attend ACA meetings here on ITR. I learn about CEN (Childhood Emotional Neglect), I also learn about eating healthy...
I have heard this said many times by many different people. "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" But is it all of it? Is it true for everyone? I'd like to suggest that without recovery work it leads to built up resentment. I'd like to suggest that the full statement should be, "What doesn't...
〝and if everything does not fall into place at the same time & pace, that does not mean the years you’ve waited have somehow been a waste. May you never discredit how far you have come, for even here, in the forest; you are under the sun. & if you only keep treading, you will...
LCTJC Relationships Fellowship The things we complain about most in the fellowship are often the challenges from which we learn the most. As much as we would like to imagine that we would learn to practice spiritual principles by reading about them, we learn what they mean and how to apply them by bumping up...