19th October 2020. Hi! Thanks for stopping by. Please IF YOU ARE FEMALE, do not reply to my private messages. If I send you a private message, I am most probably acting out my desire for flirting & acceptance to "prove" I've "still got it" ... I can easily find genuine reasons to compliment you (likely related to your share) but really, you most likely appreciate anonymity and I have to learn not to seek acceptance this way ... I will look at friend requests however. I do not view friend requests necessarily as flirting on my part. Yours maybe :-) Sometimes I really do need to talk to someone who understands what it means to be in ACA or ACoA or live with Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN). Otherwise, I am happy to have found a bunch of people who are on the the same page